Travelling with Partner with Dementia
We had a vert traumatic time travelling to visit family. He said the walk to the train had exhausted him and I really thought of getting off train as he looked so ill. I had to get a cab at the other end costing £60 . He was the ok, but on return when we got off the train went to get my friend to collect him - she was parked round the corner, and he disappeared , finally turned out he had WALKED to another car park. Once in the car he was verbally abusive to myself and my friend. It was so upsetting and embarrasing. He has never been that aggressive before and it was quite frightening. He does get annoyed when crossed now and raises his voice,
The annoying thing is that family and friends who saw him thought he was not bad at all , its as if I have been making things up.
I feel now that I am unable to take him anywhere on the train again, which means that I feel completely trapped as i can't leave him for long at all.
We had a vert traumatic time travelling to visit family. He said the walk to the train had exhausted him and I really thought of getting off train as he looked so ill. I had to get a cab at the other end costing £60 . He was the ok, but on return when we got off the train went to get my friend to collect him - she was parked round the corner, and he disappeared , finally turned out he had WALKED to another car park. Once in the car he was verbally abusive to myself and my friend. It was so upsetting and embarrasing. He has never been that aggressive before and it was quite frightening. He does get annoyed when crossed now and raises his voice,
The annoying thing is that family and friends who saw him thought he was not bad at all , its as if I have been making things up.
I feel now that I am unable to take him anywhere on the train again, which means that I feel completely trapped as i can't leave him for long at all.