Hello all of you! I am a new member and this is my first entry in your forum...
I would like to say, first of all, that I was really moved by some of the wonderful poems - I really loved Mummy's wee heart and when I wear purple (?) and some other ones
My Mother is 90 (!) and I love her to bits, she lives at home (Scotland) in her own house and I usually go to see her in the summer for two months and then at Christmas for 2 weeks - I don't want her to forget me!! She always seems to get a bit better after i've been there for a while, but this summer I found her to be a little more "absent" than usual as she has had sleeping problems in spite of medication to try & sort that out, so due to lack of sleep she dozes during most of the day and then towards the evening comes to a bit...... she's very special as she was an artist and loved drawing and painting children in old fashioned clothes and sea scapes and sketching kids in old reekie Edinburgh........ she also loved poetry and music but she doesn't remember all this........
I am quite worried as they're trying a new and final resort to sort out her sleeping habits (I mean making her sleep at least 5 hours thru the night) she is still at home but sometimes she says she's having "dark thoughts" or is ready to "scream" so once at table when she said the latter , I said ok ma , let's scream together, 1, 2 and we let rip , she laughed!
The worry now is that as she has 24 hr. care at home, she may not be able to continue like that forever (financially) but her name is down for 2 lovely residences with garden and so on.... but she's maybe too old for that and due to the occasional violent(frustration!!) outbursts, she may not be eligible for them and will have to end up in a state-run (dreary) place, I don't know - just wish she was able to smell a flower again, she does love animals though and comes alive when sees her brother's retriever!
Have almost booked my flight for xmas but just wish these pills would set in and give her a happier one, (she has vascular dementia, so she recognises all of her loved ones individually)
lol to all of u and the grand job you are doing, and well done to all the caring carers out there! Mailife
I would like to say, first of all, that I was really moved by some of the wonderful poems - I really loved Mummy's wee heart and when I wear purple (?) and some other ones
My Mother is 90 (!) and I love her to bits, she lives at home (Scotland) in her own house and I usually go to see her in the summer for two months and then at Christmas for 2 weeks - I don't want her to forget me!! She always seems to get a bit better after i've been there for a while, but this summer I found her to be a little more "absent" than usual as she has had sleeping problems in spite of medication to try & sort that out, so due to lack of sleep she dozes during most of the day and then towards the evening comes to a bit...... she's very special as she was an artist and loved drawing and painting children in old fashioned clothes and sea scapes and sketching kids in old reekie Edinburgh........ she also loved poetry and music but she doesn't remember all this........
I am quite worried as they're trying a new and final resort to sort out her sleeping habits (I mean making her sleep at least 5 hours thru the night) she is still at home but sometimes she says she's having "dark thoughts" or is ready to "scream" so once at table when she said the latter , I said ok ma , let's scream together, 1, 2 and we let rip , she laughed!
The worry now is that as she has 24 hr. care at home, she may not be able to continue like that forever (financially) but her name is down for 2 lovely residences with garden and so on.... but she's maybe too old for that and due to the occasional violent(frustration!!) outbursts, she may not be eligible for them and will have to end up in a state-run (dreary) place, I don't know - just wish she was able to smell a flower again, she does love animals though and comes alive when sees her brother's retriever!
Have almost booked my flight for xmas but just wish these pills would set in and give her a happier one, (she has vascular dementia, so she recognises all of her loved ones individually)
lol to all of u and the grand job you are doing, and well done to all the caring carers out there! Mailife