Me and my mum have been looking after my nan with dementia for years now. She has a real nasty streak that's started. She gives me and my mum the nastiest looks. She woke up late today and blamed me for not waking her up, which meant she didn't have breakfast etc said she was going to phone the police on me for neglect as I didn't wake her up or feed her food (I make all her meals normally) however she's got into the habit of not making food for herself and only eating if someone makes it for her. She also has diabetes so not eating makes her feel rough. I don't know what to do, I make all her meals but she doesn't eat them, I can't force her to eat them. When I go to work she doesn't eat, feels poorly and then blames me for going to work. I'm petrified she's going to call the police on me, she already phones family members and says I steal from her, which is so far from the truth
Don't know how much more I can take, we had social services out a few months ago for an assessment and they said she was absolutely fine and wouldn't need carers at all right now. She also keeps phoning an ambulance because she feels poorly or things she's dying and when they arrive they've said that we would really benefit from carers now to keep an eye on her and make sure she's eating/doing her tablets. We can't care for her by ourselves anymore
Don't know how much more I can take, we had social services out a few months ago for an assessment and they said she was absolutely fine and wouldn't need carers at all right now. She also keeps phoning an ambulance because she feels poorly or things she's dying and when they arrive they've said that we would really benefit from carers now to keep an eye on her and make sure she's eating/doing her tablets. We can't care for her by ourselves anymore