I moved mum into a care home this week. She's probably stage 5 Alzheimer's but nowhere near as bad as the other residents I've seen there - indeed she looks almost normal compared to the tragically sad condition of those residents. Mum keeps saying she wants to move "somewhere else" as "this home is for really poorly people, not someone like me" - she seems convinced she'll be moving soon to a "more normal" place. Yet of course her dementia will sadly progress and she may become like the other residents at some point. I don't know what to do - should I move her? Yet she hated every other home I took her to when searching for the right home. And if she did move, she might end up having to move back before long. The staff say she's lovely and they wish everyone was like her... I can't discuss with my brother as he's told me not to contact him about any of this which makes it so much harder to know what to do - what's best for mum, in her interests and for her well-being. Advice appreciated, thank you so much.