Just popping to say thank you to everyone who replied regarding my post about the funeral. ❤️
I have to go back to work tomorrow but I'm not sure that I'm ready.
The beauty about being self-employed is that you can take nearly a month off to get everything sorted & to support & look after your family 👨👩👧👦 , but the downside is that it hits you quite badly in the wallet. 💷👛
Some of my time off has also been because I came down with a sickness bug courtesy of my grandson 🤢🤮.
There's no standard bereavement leave payment for people who are self-employed - you pay for expensive private insurance or you get nothing. 🤷
I was also quite shocked to get an invoice from the funeral directors for £82 from the doctor, for sorting out the paperwork for my mother's death (no wonder the doctor phoned me - I was a private-paying patient & didn't know!) 😳😳😳😳
Plus the hidden extras - like having to pay for the order of service booklets - that you're not told about. The funeral, wake, plot & headstone, flowers, new clothes, death certificates & sundries have come to just over £8,000.
My mum had a "royal wedding" send off because that's what she expected but even half of that is a lot of money for pensioners to find if they want to do well by their family members 😥
And me? Well, I'm feeling quite empty emotionally. Think I'm just exhausted. I'll try & take it quietly this week as much as I can & not expect too much of myself.
But for today, on my last day off, we're taking our grandson, Charlie to see the dinosaurs 🦕 in Bute Park, Cardiff, this afternoon.
It's a start to getting back to normality, whatever that is.
I have to go back to work tomorrow but I'm not sure that I'm ready.
The beauty about being self-employed is that you can take nearly a month off to get everything sorted & to support & look after your family 👨👩👧👦 , but the downside is that it hits you quite badly in the wallet. 💷👛
Some of my time off has also been because I came down with a sickness bug courtesy of my grandson 🤢🤮.
There's no standard bereavement leave payment for people who are self-employed - you pay for expensive private insurance or you get nothing. 🤷
I was also quite shocked to get an invoice from the funeral directors for £82 from the doctor, for sorting out the paperwork for my mother's death (no wonder the doctor phoned me - I was a private-paying patient & didn't know!) 😳😳😳😳
Plus the hidden extras - like having to pay for the order of service booklets - that you're not told about. The funeral, wake, plot & headstone, flowers, new clothes, death certificates & sundries have come to just over £8,000.
My mum had a "royal wedding" send off because that's what she expected but even half of that is a lot of money for pensioners to find if they want to do well by their family members 😥
And me? Well, I'm feeling quite empty emotionally. Think I'm just exhausted. I'll try & take it quietly this week as much as I can & not expect too much of myself.
But for today, on my last day off, we're taking our grandson, Charlie to see the dinosaurs 🦕 in Bute Park, Cardiff, this afternoon.
It's a start to getting back to normality, whatever that is.