How do you answer? I'm fine. I'm OK, day at a time, I'll get there. These are my catch phrases to cover my feelings because after all, three months have passed since the death of my life Partner and to tell the truth that I feel empty, I yearn for him, I sometimes think if I died it would be a release but you can't be honest because the people who ask can't do anything to make it better and are relieved and I'm grateful that they asked but know I can't be truthful. Anyone else feel like me?