Thanks for your input. Didn't realise about the driving, mind you, she won't even get in the car these days.
As for the cleaner, good suggestion, if she thinks it has been set up by someone, she will probably accept it. On that basis, I am booking someone to clean the oven, so that could mollify her.
Sad to say, she will not be able to attend dentist appointment, as I cannot get her out of the house. This is the second day where she has spent almost every minute of the day in the bedroom. She is scared of life. I played some oldies on the record player, but she said they made her sad because they reminded her of better times. She is aware they have gone forever.
As for the cleaner, good suggestion, if she thinks it has been set up by someone, she will probably accept it. On that basis, I am booking someone to clean the oven, so that could mollify her.
Sad to say, she will not be able to attend dentist appointment, as I cannot get her out of the house. This is the second day where she has spent almost every minute of the day in the bedroom. She is scared of life. I played some oldies on the record player, but she said they made her sad because they reminded her of better times. She is aware they have gone forever.