These past 3 months have been quite challenging with Ma being in the care home. There have been several issues and a lot of kinks to work out. It's still a work in progress.
One of the team leaders will always make a comment to me about Ma.
Little things, she's going into other people's rooms. And she's rilling up the other residents. She keeps pacing up and down the hall. She keeps asking to go home every day. And other little snippets.
When I reply that other people go into her room as I've seen them, she says oh no, not our residents.
There's other residents that are always pacing and have been since day one. Oh yes, but they like to do that.
She has dementia and limited english speaking ability so I don't really know how much she can say to upset another resident. Oh she can, she says.
All the other residents asked to go home as well. Her response to that was yeah, she's a lot of work. I don't know how you did it.
I'm not really sure what her end game is here. The other team leader absolutely loves Ma and says she's a joy. Any time I would ask her how Ma was, she would say she's absolutely fine and she is very low maintenance compared to others. (This lady is great with Ma.)
Another carer said Ma is like a mother hen and so caring towards other residents (that's part of her that I know is still her)
It just seems that this one team leader from day 1 has just got it in for her? I've seen her with Ma and she's fine and I know that Ma would say something to me if something was off or if this team leader mistreated her.
Should I be worried about this? My sister in law said she may be trying to throw her out by claiming she's problematic. (SIL has witnessed this too)
We both agreed that there's no way she can do that, but I just thought I'd post on here to get some thoughts on this.
One of the team leaders will always make a comment to me about Ma.
Little things, she's going into other people's rooms. And she's rilling up the other residents. She keeps pacing up and down the hall. She keeps asking to go home every day. And other little snippets.
When I reply that other people go into her room as I've seen them, she says oh no, not our residents.
There's other residents that are always pacing and have been since day one. Oh yes, but they like to do that.
She has dementia and limited english speaking ability so I don't really know how much she can say to upset another resident. Oh she can, she says.
All the other residents asked to go home as well. Her response to that was yeah, she's a lot of work. I don't know how you did it.
I'm not really sure what her end game is here. The other team leader absolutely loves Ma and says she's a joy. Any time I would ask her how Ma was, she would say she's absolutely fine and she is very low maintenance compared to others. (This lady is great with Ma.)
Another carer said Ma is like a mother hen and so caring towards other residents (that's part of her that I know is still her)
It just seems that this one team leader from day 1 has just got it in for her? I've seen her with Ma and she's fine and I know that Ma would say something to me if something was off or if this team leader mistreated her.
Should I be worried about this? My sister in law said she may be trying to throw her out by claiming she's problematic. (SIL has witnessed this too)
We both agreed that there's no way she can do that, but I just thought I'd post on here to get some thoughts on this.