I don't know how to cope with today. Next week my mum goes into hospital for her very big operation and as it's her only chance we have to take it. Her recovery will be a few months at least. Today dad goes to his new home, for how long we don't know. Last week i was on here telling you we'd found a 'nice' care home for dad, as we don't now feel we have any choice for his care. I know it is the right thing to do but when i see dad's fear and pain i feel utterly desperate and empty. My mum, sister and i have been coping but i think the hardest parts are to come. For him, his cosy world has gone, his driving, his wife and his home! It's hard enough when you understand fully but it must be harder for dad not understanding why all this is happening. we just keep reassuring him that it will all still be there for when he comes home.
No doubt we will make it through today and do our best. I've done him a lovely photo board and got him a new tv!!! Don't think either will soften the blow for him
Thanks for being there and listening X
No doubt we will make it through today and do our best. I've done him a lovely photo board and got him a new tv!!! Don't think either will soften the blow for him
Thanks for being there and listening X