Hello @JohnGroban . You will no doubt still be smarting from your bad visit. I don't think that anyone trying to explain your grandma's situation to her will do any good to be honest. It is, I fear, more likely to cause her upset and agitation. By all means, speak to the head nurse and see what she suggests is a good approach for your grandma. She will have seen it all before, will know her quite well by now, and may have some suggestions on how to settle her.
A day at a time John, a day at a time. Do you know how your grandma has been since you saw her?
Yeah, according to the head nurse, she was ok, she did not mention wanting to go home.
Actually, they have a good relationship now, grandma likes her a lot and the feeling is mutual from the head nurse. She invited her to visit, as you might have guessed.
I feel terrible because her begging is hard to swallow. When she looks into my eyes, with tears and tells me and my mum if we do not take her home soon we will do it in a coffin.
And I feel bad because deep down I want the get that call from the nursing home to tell me it's all over.