The rollercoaster of this illness causing us to think it is ok I can manage and then just as suddenly the challenges reappear is difficult. I am glad for you that you have arrived at the decision and for your OH that he will be looked after by a team of people but with you still fully involved just as Jessbow said without the night shift and grotty bits.
I am also glad that you are listening to the signals your body is giving you in that it is time. My mum died suddenly at home from a fatal stroke...previously no health problems I will never know if looking after dad with dementia caused it through stress and I try not to think that it did...however in the following 10 very stressful months and at times many tearful days and nights for me having willingly put my life on hold and moved in to look after verbally aggressive dad...a nursing home was the next step I had to take.
I have posted previously to others...dementia takes one life don't let it take two. Partly that is probably due to how I feel about mum in times of reflection.
I am also glad that you are listening to the signals your body is giving you in that it is time. My mum died suddenly at home from a fatal stroke...previously no health problems I will never know if looking after dad with dementia caused it through stress and I try not to think that it did...however in the following 10 very stressful months and at times many tearful days and nights for me having willingly put my life on hold and moved in to look after verbally aggressive dad...a nursing home was the next step I had to take.
I have posted previously to others...dementia takes one life don't let it take two. Partly that is probably due to how I feel about mum in times of reflection.