Moring everyone...
Oh AnnM, I'm lost for words ...school and MiL situation.
One of my useless invisible in laws was married to a teacher. They have always hated the job.
Years ago we were at their house , and I overheard a conversation they were having on the phone with a colleague.
They were working out how many 'sick days' they had left to take off school, and where they were going to go.
They told me that all teachers in their school takes off the maximum number of sick days !
A lot of staff go off on extended sick leave (full pay) ...and there is nothing the school can do.
I'm lost for words at the teachers response to your situation.
AnnM, MiL ..... I've had nursing staff say to me 'I don't know how you do this' ...
How is it that a ward full of staff and support couldn't 'cope' with my husband, but I was expected to cope at home alone?
I'm glad MiL is not coming home to you (I mean that in the nicest possible way) ...
I hope you find somewhere close to you, but if not then Chester is a nice place to be.
Slugsta, Yes, I'm still moving, that seems to be the plan. After knee ops/ recovery.
Move down to my sisters , then take time to find a suitable forever home.
Home Problems....
One of my neighbours has moved (suddenly, not sure what happened) and rented their flat out to a friend/ retired couple.
This couple are making a lot of problems for the rest of us , always complaining about something.
I cant make a big deal out of it , or complain as when I sell I have to mention disputes on the sellers information form.
One of the things they don't like is where their designated car spaces are, and want mine.
We have our own 2 bays, then plenty of visitor space. This couple want my 2 bays !
Anyway.... Jokingly.... Does anyone remember the old Fawtly Towers 'sketch' when a Doctor says ....
'I'm a Doctor .... and I want my sausages?' ...
This man is a retied Doctor, and says to me ... 'I am a Doctor, and I want your parking bays'...
I said, I think not.... park in your own spaces... He looks me up and down, and says but ... I'm a Doctor.
They don't like any of the spare parking bays, as you can get bird poo on the cars ....
Another thing they don't like is the noise of the lawnmower, and want the gardener to check with them its OK to start mowing the lawn at 10am, as they sometimes sleep in.
Quite a few other things like that.... sooo many complaints.
This couple (renting the property) are not really entitled to complain about maintenance / gardening issues.
I live in a large shared converted house (Flats) . We have always done our own property maintenance.
This couple even want the gardener to collect their recycling and rubbish for them !
I think the last flat they lived in they had someone do this, so expect the same level of 'service'.
Its getting me down, I loved living here, but now I'm looking forward to leaving.
We all get on here, no one has ever really come in an upset the 'household'.
Rant over..... will try not to mention them again.
I'm seeing Doc (GP) next week. I've been taking extra vitamins to make sure my blood test is OK.
My appetite still (its been weeks) isn't great. I am eating , just not enjoying food.
Its like when I was caring for my husband, eating, but not enjoying food.
I feel run down, depressed (not diagnosed) , and I cant stop worrying about MiL.
Other In-Laws 'situation' not helping either.... I might tell you about them another day.
Oh AnnM, I'm lost for words ...school and MiL situation.
One of my useless invisible in laws was married to a teacher. They have always hated the job.
Years ago we were at their house , and I overheard a conversation they were having on the phone with a colleague.
They were working out how many 'sick days' they had left to take off school, and where they were going to go.
They told me that all teachers in their school takes off the maximum number of sick days !
A lot of staff go off on extended sick leave (full pay) ...and there is nothing the school can do.
I'm lost for words at the teachers response to your situation.
AnnM, MiL ..... I've had nursing staff say to me 'I don't know how you do this' ...
How is it that a ward full of staff and support couldn't 'cope' with my husband, but I was expected to cope at home alone?
I'm glad MiL is not coming home to you (I mean that in the nicest possible way) ...
I hope you find somewhere close to you, but if not then Chester is a nice place to be.
Slugsta, Yes, I'm still moving, that seems to be the plan. After knee ops/ recovery.
Move down to my sisters , then take time to find a suitable forever home.
Home Problems....
One of my neighbours has moved (suddenly, not sure what happened) and rented their flat out to a friend/ retired couple.
This couple are making a lot of problems for the rest of us , always complaining about something.
I cant make a big deal out of it , or complain as when I sell I have to mention disputes on the sellers information form.
One of the things they don't like is where their designated car spaces are, and want mine.
We have our own 2 bays, then plenty of visitor space. This couple want my 2 bays !
Anyway.... Jokingly.... Does anyone remember the old Fawtly Towers 'sketch' when a Doctor says ....
'I'm a Doctor .... and I want my sausages?' ...
This man is a retied Doctor, and says to me ... 'I am a Doctor, and I want your parking bays'...
I said, I think not.... park in your own spaces... He looks me up and down, and says but ... I'm a Doctor.
They don't like any of the spare parking bays, as you can get bird poo on the cars ....
Another thing they don't like is the noise of the lawnmower, and want the gardener to check with them its OK to start mowing the lawn at 10am, as they sometimes sleep in.
Quite a few other things like that.... sooo many complaints.
This couple (renting the property) are not really entitled to complain about maintenance / gardening issues.
I live in a large shared converted house (Flats) . We have always done our own property maintenance.
This couple even want the gardener to collect their recycling and rubbish for them !
I think the last flat they lived in they had someone do this, so expect the same level of 'service'.
Its getting me down, I loved living here, but now I'm looking forward to leaving.
We all get on here, no one has ever really come in an upset the 'household'.
Rant over..... will try not to mention them again.
I'm seeing Doc (GP) next week. I've been taking extra vitamins to make sure my blood test is OK.
My appetite still (its been weeks) isn't great. I am eating , just not enjoying food.
Its like when I was caring for my husband, eating, but not enjoying food.
I feel run down, depressed (not diagnosed) , and I cant stop worrying about MiL.
Other In-Laws 'situation' not helping either.... I might tell you about them another day.