daughter in terrible mental state last night on phone put it on loud speaker so he could hear how bad she is after 45 mins call ended and i put my head in my hands and shook looked at him and he is still doing his crossword no emotion nothing no concern for her or me said nothing!!!! still hasn't i walked away as felt like i could stab him there and then feel ashamed i felt like that but how could he feel nothing and show no concern so alone with it all