Since OH came home from hospital in February after two weeks in Covid ward, he has refused to shower. He seems frightened of it. We don't have a walk-in shower so he would have to climb over the side of the bath and I think he just finds the while thing too difficult. He pretends that he will have a shower later in the day but he never does. He will let me wash his hair over the washbasin, which he seems to enjoy, and loves having me style it with the hair drier. Until recently he would not let me help to wash him. His feet got in a terrible neglected condition but we have now had a breakthrough and he suddenly will let me wash his feet and cut his toe nails. Social services can supply me with some steps to help him get into the bath, and a bath seat and grab rails. I don't think they will make much difference to his fears but I will try them before going the whole hog and having a walk-in shower installed. It's a daunting prospect. I have been told this work would take two weeks and we don't have another loo or bathroom in the house. I could not manage OH in a Premier Inn for two weeks and there is nowhere in the family that he could stay. The other alternative would be respite care for him, which I don't want to do unless it becomes really necessary. I have a feeling that it's the jet of water itself that causes his fears so I'm not sure that all the trouble and expense would be worth it.