I’ve been to the doctors about this, and I think that they are going to refer my wife back to the memory clinic, but in the meantime, they don’t offer any advice on how to calm, comfort, react or cope, and I’m not sure the memory clinic will either. So here I am, asking complete strangers about a delicate matter. Can anyone help please?
My wife has dozens of confabulations (false memories – not hallucinations) a day. Most are harmless and I just ‘go along with them’. However, and apologies for the explicit nature, she has recently started accusing me of having sex with our granddaughter, in front of her.
It doesn’t feel appropriate to go along with this, but she gets visibly distressed and uncharacteristically angry when I don’t accept her memory, and she won’t let me comfort her. She typically forgets about it an hour or so later, but the frequency and intensity are increasing. Its upsetting to see her so distressed – what can I do?
My wife has dozens of confabulations (false memories – not hallucinations) a day. Most are harmless and I just ‘go along with them’. However, and apologies for the explicit nature, she has recently started accusing me of having sex with our granddaughter, in front of her.
It doesn’t feel appropriate to go along with this, but she gets visibly distressed and uncharacteristically angry when I don’t accept her memory, and she won’t let me comfort her. She typically forgets about it an hour or so later, but the frequency and intensity are increasing. Its upsetting to see her so distressed – what can I do?