My husband has mixed dementia Alzheimers and Vascular dementia. He has now been accessed for 24 hour care and his daughter and myself picked a care home we liked .
He is what i describe as Jekyll and Hyde when he is nice and sweet one time but changes to be an angry nasty person if anything upsets him.
When i visit him in the home he starts grumbling about food staff etc being ignored on his own no one to talk to. He will not mix with others says he doesnt want to . He is reg blind as well which doesnt help and his passion is Classical Music and i have taken his radio set to classic FM and a tv/ dvd player to listen to DVD's and CD's as well as his talking book.
It is getting me down and upset as if i say he is mistaken or confused he just explodes at me blaming me for putting him in this prison.
Have you any advice on how to settle him in the care home.
Thanks Carer J![Confused :confused: :confused:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
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He is what i describe as Jekyll and Hyde when he is nice and sweet one time but changes to be an angry nasty person if anything upsets him.
When i visit him in the home he starts grumbling about food staff etc being ignored on his own no one to talk to. He will not mix with others says he doesnt want to . He is reg blind as well which doesnt help and his passion is Classical Music and i have taken his radio set to classic FM and a tv/ dvd player to listen to DVD's and CD's as well as his talking book.
It is getting me down and upset as if i say he is mistaken or confused he just explodes at me blaming me for putting him in this prison.
Have you any advice on how to settle him in the care home.
Thanks Carer J