Zan, I think it is a quite lovely idea. I've only been here a matter of months but find I wonder at what has become of some of those whose lives I came to know, albeit briefly, and have had the trauma of posting THAT very personal, painful thread .....
Some (bereaved) obviously find it helpful to stay around .... and something I felt I have wanted to say for some time is how helpful I find it that they do .... because, yes, there is a different perspective .... their ability to see things on reflection instead of amongst the desperate 'fog' ... the wisdom, their experiences and the learning they have to offer.... their strength to continue sharing to help others.... as well as hopefully, to continue to gain their own healing.....
One other thought on this... I feel I have become so dependent on this 'group' for support..... it has crossed my mind that the 'bereavement' (whenever it happens) will actually be double-fold.....
I personally, believe you've identified a 'gap' and hope to see it filled.... my ONLY reservation would be that people 'bereaved' would then not see themselves as 'sidelined' into a specific forum ... rather that they continue to be supported - not just by those who share a 'similar' experience - but also hugely appreciated by mere mortals like me who look to them and appreciate their contributions to any thread ......
Nice one, Zan!
Love, Karen, x