My dad went into a nursing home in February this year with vascular dementia as mum was unable to cope with his care. He had numerous incidents where he attacked other patients after wandering into their rooms and a month ago was moved into another care home which we were told that was more secure and better equipped for patients who were a danger both to themselves and to others. He had been given CHC so we are not paying for his care now. We weren't given any choice in his new care home but even if we did there isn't another one close enough for my mum to visit.
Already in the new home there have been two quite serious incidents one where he was hurt and one where he hurt another patient. We are so concerned that the home doesn't seem to be able to monitor him closely enough to stop him wandering into other peoples rooms and because he thinks that it is his room he gets aggressive and someone ends up hurt. The home have put an alarm on his door so they know when he is leaving his room but the bottom line is that these incidents happen late at night with two members of staff on duty and sometimes both of them are busy with other patients. They have his name on his door too.
If he gets kicked out of this home he will be sectioned which we really want to try to avoid. The home are saying that the incidents were very unfortunate but I get the impression that they see this as normal.
Is there anything that we can do? Can we ask for extra staff to keep an eye on him in the evening. We are so scared that either he is going to really hurt someone or that he himself will end up injured.
Already in the new home there have been two quite serious incidents one where he was hurt and one where he hurt another patient. We are so concerned that the home doesn't seem to be able to monitor him closely enough to stop him wandering into other peoples rooms and because he thinks that it is his room he gets aggressive and someone ends up hurt. The home have put an alarm on his door so they know when he is leaving his room but the bottom line is that these incidents happen late at night with two members of staff on duty and sometimes both of them are busy with other patients. They have his name on his door too.
If he gets kicked out of this home he will be sectioned which we really want to try to avoid. The home are saying that the incidents were very unfortunate but I get the impression that they see this as normal.
Is there anything that we can do? Can we ask for extra staff to keep an eye on him in the evening. We are so scared that either he is going to really hurt someone or that he himself will end up injured.
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