Let them get on with it and actually do something for a change.......you can never win, just learn to be guarded in what you tell them, have as little to do with them as you need to.
Hope you enjoyed your walk, we too live by the sea and had a lovely walk today in the sunshine......also had lovely fish chips and mushy peas sat in the car.
Now I’m just going to have a piece of blackcurrant pie, with cream.......naughty but nice.
Have a nice weekend x