Poor Piedsmum is poorly again.

[Contrary Mary]

Dear Pied

Not on TP so much now, but just logged in and seen the activity on your thread. I am so sorry to read of your Mum's passing. May she now be at peace. My sincere condolences to all the Pied family, she couldn't have had a better daughter. xx

 

[piedwarbler]

Hello, very busy day today, which is maybe a good thing. We had trouble with the tissue donation from a difficult doctor's receptionist, and a hospital that put too much paperwork in the way. We had to find another hospital to do the donation. I was very upset about that. But huge relief that it seems to all be ok.
We registered the death and then went to the undertakers and to the home to clear out Mum's room. Clearing out her glasses and her David Walliams poster really upset me and I had a few tears on the way home.
I'm a bit fed up now. Just sulking because no one is as nice as my little mum and I hated going back to the home without a trifle in my bag.

 

[CeliaW]

No wise words for you Pied - just a humongous hug for you ((((((((((((Pied))))))))))))))
and the wish that you don't hit any more difficulties with technical / practical things. Emotions and thoughts come and go at random but you don't need them compounded by difficult people

Take care

Love
Celia
xx

 

[piedwarbler]

I said that with my tongue in my cheek - think I'm tired so I just allowed myself a 20 minute grump x

 

[CeliaW]

Think you are entitled to grumps - this isn't a forever entitlement mind you - lol - but you can have a three month grump allowance

 

[piedwarbler]

Thanks Celia. Yes I explained to the doctors receptionist that we needed the paperwork because we only had a 24 hour window for the tissue donation but obviously she couldn't give a stuff about finding a cure for MS.

 

[grove]

Oh Pied , That Receptionist needs a good kick up the behind too teach her good Customer Skills & she should have shown some sympathy , sorry you & your Sister had this upset but glad you were able to sort it before time ran out


Much Love , Peace & Comfort


Take care ( & agree with Celia you are allowed to be grumpy )


Love & Comforting Hugs

Love Grove x x

 

[Jo1958]

Pied, hi
Oh what a journey, I hope that you keep on trucking the way you have been and all goes as well as it can in the days and weeks to come.

Much respect and love from Jo

 

[garnuft]

I'm a bit fed up now. Just sulking because no one is as nice as my little mum and I hated going back to the home without a trifle in my bag.

Oh.....these are the things that break your stride. XXX

 

[piedwarbler]

Thanks Jo, Grove and Gwen. Yes, little things do break your stride.
I am shattered. Off to bed. Night, sweet dreams xx

 

[grove]

Night , Night dearest Pied & special vibes you sleep well

Peace be with you tonight


Love & Hugs


Love Grove x x

 

[piedwarbler]

Night Grove (just woke up with a start, have had a drink and now going back to sleep, I hope!) x

 

[piedwarbler]

I've just re- read the last couple of pages - and though I do recall what people said - it's like reading them for the first time in another way. Because I was so stressed when Mum was poorly, I suppose, I was just going through the motions to some extent.
I want to choose some bits from here to print and use to help plan Mum's funeral if that's ok.
X

 

[garnuft]

Night Pied, I'm off to bed now too, I hope sleep comes quickly to you.
It's hard to sleep with a full heart but yours is full of love and memories not regrets....though even a Saint has a few of them

Night, night Pied....try to sleep, you need your energy and it has been wiped out. XXX

 

[piedwarbler]

I will try Gwen. Night xx

 

[jeany123]

I hope you sleep Pied, you will need rest for the days ahead,there are some wonderful posts on here and everyone really cares, even those with not much to say they just popped in to remind you that they are thinking of you ,


Jeany x

 

[CeliaW]

Just woke up and thought must pop on to your thread to see how you are. Hope you have managed to get back to sleep.

Hugs, take care xx

Sent from my GT-I8160 using Talking Point mobile app

 

[piedwarbler]

Yes, Jeany. There is wisdom, compassion, and comfort. It's a remarkable thread. Mum would be too modest to take any credit for it. Xx

 

[starryuk]

Good Morning Pied,

It looks as if you haven't had much sleep tonight. Your mind must be whirling. Will you be able to nap during the day? Hopefully you are not going into work...
Just to say you are in my thoughts.

x

 

[piedwarbler]

Morning Starry, mmm I didn't really get much sleep, no. I wasn't crying or anything, or even thinking about the last fortnight really. My eye is quite sore - it's the eye that I think is affected by tamoxifen (tamoxifen can affect the cornea) and when I'm tired it hurts.
Clearly I am very, very tired. !
I would like to pop into work but not for long. X