I've told S this is cack handed care. She was defensive. Said any turn will be hard now. Said mum is peaceful. She is NOT. Great. More memories I don't want in my head space.
I told mum I'm going to take her to my house so we can get some peace.
While all this was going on, who turns up but my son. Wants to see his gran- shocked because he didnt realise how ill she was despite me telling him. She was delighted to see him and blinked 3 times. Little P shouted "Hi gran" from the car park. Mum heard her And gave a loud sigh.
Please can someone help us here cos we feel we have failed my mum. We promised her peace to sleep.
Don't be afraid to ask for more morphine. You will know if she needs it - or if she would enjoy it - better than anyone. My mother loved it. And she only had it for half a day.