I am so sorry if this sounds harsh but just wanted some advice.
Mam is now in a carehome and the council have taken control of the house to pay her fees until we get chance to sell it. She hasnt got a will and my brother and I have POA for her finances and I have a joint bank account with her. We have both cared for most of mams needs ( with carers) at home for the past 5 years, which was incredibly hard. My sister visited Mam once a month for 30 mins and did not contribute in any way to her care or needs.
Her house needs a fair bit doing to it before we put it up for sale, decorating, some plastering new kitchen and emptying ( she was a bit of a hoarder). We ( my brother and I) are happy to do a most of the work ourselves so we get the most for the house.
Firstly is that the right way to look at it, as once the bill uses up all of the house value wont the council have to just continue paying?
Also and this is the horrible bit....if mam dies and there is so e money left over from the house sale, will it have to be split 3 ways equally or is there away around this? I am not being tight, I want my sister to have her share but if my brother and i do all the manual work to the house to increase the value and she does nothing it doesnt sit right with me. Can we claim a payment for the work we do?
I am sorry this is so long 🙂
Mam is now in a carehome and the council have taken control of the house to pay her fees until we get chance to sell it. She hasnt got a will and my brother and I have POA for her finances and I have a joint bank account with her. We have both cared for most of mams needs ( with carers) at home for the past 5 years, which was incredibly hard. My sister visited Mam once a month for 30 mins and did not contribute in any way to her care or needs.
Her house needs a fair bit doing to it before we put it up for sale, decorating, some plastering new kitchen and emptying ( she was a bit of a hoarder). We ( my brother and I) are happy to do a most of the work ourselves so we get the most for the house.
Firstly is that the right way to look at it, as once the bill uses up all of the house value wont the council have to just continue paying?
Also and this is the horrible bit....if mam dies and there is so e money left over from the house sale, will it have to be split 3 ways equally or is there away around this? I am not being tight, I want my sister to have her share but if my brother and i do all the manual work to the house to increase the value and she does nothing it doesnt sit right with me. Can we claim a payment for the work we do?
I am sorry this is so long 🙂