My mum has vascular dementia but doesn’t remember the diagnosis. We’ve stopped telling her as it distressed her. The problem is she is primarily cared for by my 87 year father with my help. I live an hours drive away.
I desperately want to obtain more help for them as I can’t be there everyday but my dad said he can manage. He’s doing his best, but I think he’s struggling. My mum has always been so house proud. She’d be offended if I suggested a cleaner. I’m currently cleaning and washing for them.
I’ve noticed a deterioration in her memory and I’m overwhelmed with worry. How can I help if she doesn’t know there is anything wrong?
I desperately want to obtain more help for them as I can’t be there everyday but my dad said he can manage. He’s doing his best, but I think he’s struggling. My mum has always been so house proud. She’d be offended if I suggested a cleaner. I’m currently cleaning and washing for them.
I’ve noticed a deterioration in her memory and I’m overwhelmed with worry. How can I help if she doesn’t know there is anything wrong?