My husband has always been a bit of a wind-up merchant and always loved playing practical jokes on people. I haven't seen this side of him for a few years but it's creeping back which, to me, is lovely but he is now starting to wind--up one of our carers. We have three main ones that come each day in rotation. Two of them he is fine and takes his pills and chats away with them. The other (I'll call her 'M') he complains to me that she is grumpy (she isn't). This morning has been very difficult. 'M' came and sorted his pills as usual, gave them to me and I put them in my hand for him to take. He then has a soluble Asprin. He was refusing to take the pills from my hand and took a lot of persuading to take them all. He tried hiding them (he couldn't fool me) and tried spitting them out but I managed to get him to take them all. He then only had to drink the small amount of water with the Asprin. He flatly refused meaning 'M' was getting quite worried and upset as she had to leave to go to her next client. He then started to say he was going to leave me (he always says this when he doesn't get his way) and looked a bit aggressive. I knew this was all an act and wasn't at all bothered. 'M' was obviously worried and I could tell she didn't want to leave me. I said everything was fine. As soon as 'M' had gone he gulped down the Asprin and started doing the washing up. I told him it wasn't fair to do that to her but his response was 'she loves me winding her up'. This is so much like his old self it was amazing but I feel so sorry for 'M'. I'm not sure if I will get chance to speak to her alone to explain or should I ring the agency and see what they say? I don't want to make a big issue of it but I don't want her upset either.
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