Yes, in England.
@Dave63 was very helpful with the information. I have reviewed the full government care legislation and Annexe A, Clause 29 states:
· agree with the third party paying the ‘top-up’ (if this is not the cared for person) and the provider that payment for the ‘top-up’ element
can be made directly to the provider with the local authority paying the remainder. However, as stated earlier, this is not recommended.
So even though it is not recommended, it is commonplace and quite normal.
I have just had another phone call from the placement team telling me that they have their own local policy which is not to permit the third party to pay the top up to the provider directly. I told them that local policy cannot obviate the legislation. The placement officer told me that I would have to give them proof I could pay the top ups for two years, but it has to be in immediately available cash and not a deferred payment agreement on my property (which went on the market today). The care home was happy to enter into a deferred payment agreement with me, which is the basis I had been going on.
They have continued to pressure me to accept the placement they have sourced. They have said that I must put it in writing why I am rejecting it. I told them I should not have to do that because we have already chosen somewhere and agreed a way forward with the care home, but I was told it was due to pressure on the hospital system and they needed to get my mother out immediately.
I am feeling very stressed now. I feel they are operating a policy of attrition, just trying to wear me down.