Mum passed away on Friday- in hospital after a heart attack in her Care home. Family were with her tho' not sure she knew it. I'd had a good visit the day before wrapping presents for her grandchildren and I am thankful that she died while (mostly!) still knowing who I was.
I havent cried yet....... feel guilty that I only feel relieved that her suffering - and ours- is finally over.....maybe it will hit me in unexpected moments or after the funeral. To be honest we've been mourning the loss of mum for last few years and Ive cried so many tears on many occasions after care home visits I wonder if I'm all cried out ?
Thankyou friends for your support over our time with dementia. I didn't often contribute but found info and comfort in your words x
I havent cried yet....... feel guilty that I only feel relieved that her suffering - and ours- is finally over.....maybe it will hit me in unexpected moments or after the funeral. To be honest we've been mourning the loss of mum for last few years and Ive cried so many tears on many occasions after care home visits I wonder if I'm all cried out ?
Thankyou friends for your support over our time with dementia. I didn't often contribute but found info and comfort in your words x