Hi all - I'm a carer for my 98 yr old Mum who has vascular dementia. She has mobility issues and is also incontinent. We've been using pads supplied by our local NHS Incontinence Dept but she now needs much more absorbent ones for night time. However, the NHS can only supply the ones for use with pull-up pants, which Mum can't wear as she has thrush in her groin and those net pants make the thrush bleed. She gets violent when we try to use the wrap around pads so those are a non-starter, too. I need to find medium - heavy absorbency (I think) adhesive pads for use with her own cotton underwear that I can pre-stick onto the underwear and I'm coming up against a brick wall! Currently using Paul Hartmann Molimed Maxi 4 Drops, but they're just not absorbent enough for night time use. Does anyone have any experience of this or suggestions? Many thanks.