Hi Crystal
so sorry to see someone else join us in the Early Onset community, but it may be helpful for you both to know there are others in the same position, because, while it will always seem so unfair, at least we are not unique, and the people I have met so far in our situation have been such good, nice people - Connie who has beat me to a reply is one such, someone you feel better for having known.
For the present and forseeable future, do the 'day by day' thing that helps all who are touched by dementia in any way, young or old. At first the 'yoiunger person with dementia' tag seems the worst, but you will find that dementia at any age is basically the same, some of the challenges are just worse - for a younger person, or for an older one.
Connie has already mentioned Norman, who cares for his Peggy. Norman is a fantastic fellow, doing an unimaginably difficult job caring for Peg at home, and it matters not a jot that he is whatever age he is - we are all in it together. To me, Norman seems younger than I am as I often feel old as the hills since Jan has been taken from me.
Try to keep a diary of some sort, it will help you keep things in perspective over time.
Why not record the things you do together from now on using a camera?
Both diary and camera have helped me immensely - my Jan was 50 when she started her symptoms in 1991 but it took ages to get a diagnosis. I was with her twice today in the care home [25 miles away] where she now lives, once to be with her to feed her lunch, once to take her hairdresser in as I do regularly. She is still lovely, though very compromised.
My point being, the diagnosis is the start of a new life for you both. It will help you and your depressions [I've been up and down like a manic express elevator for the past 15 years, so I know where you are at] if you can adjust to your new situation, and learn to know and love your husband as he changes over time.
It will still be him, no matter how the dementia tries to muck you both around.
Do use TP to vent your feelings, but also to know you aren't alone.
you asked
Will the crying , anger and confusion ever stop
the answer is yes. but they will also start again, then stop, etc.
So you will both have good days, and bad days.
Live for each day, there will still be many happy times ahead, and leave no stone unturned in finding them.
See - I can ramble with the best of them! [rambling is positive for me at present because I'm using the heat generated by my PC to keep me warm as my heating has packed up!
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