Hi can anybody help with a bit of information? My relative is elderly and her partner has dementia. She is in I’ll health herself and is finding it increasingly difficult to care for him at home. She thinks she has to pay for any care he might be able to get at home- so for eg he needs help getting in and out of bed, washing and isn’t continent. She suffers win long term conditions that are limiting and is exhausted. Does the care available vary from area to area does anybody know? Can she get someone to come in to wash him etc change him get him out of or into bed for her as she is unable to lift him etc. Thanks.