Hi All,
I dont come on here much as had a lot to deal with, but just wanted to air my frustrations and I see this site has changed a bit, so hope my thread is in the correct section.
For those of you whom I spoke to before you would know about my Father who lives quite far away now in a care home with dementia, the later stages he is at now, Yes he has gotten worse now, cant walk and hardly speaks and when I speak to him he looks at me blankly and does not really understand, so I have that emotional aspect to deal with, plus being only child and my Mother died when I was a child myself so things have been pretty tough really. Oh and he does not know who I am any more either now. Just some strange woman that visits him.
But despite all and came out of my depression a bit I try to remain positive, even though when you feel all is going against you.
Now we have been having awful time with a troublesome neighbour living down below, we are in a small block, so you can imagine, he is nosy, horrible and a trouble maker who attracts all kinds to our block. The police and council do nothing much, since we fell out with this person. We had rows with him over a couple of years. It will go quiet for a while and then he will start it all up again.
Other week he was shouting up abuse at our window in front of neighbours. The police warned him, Then the other day we find white paint chucked all over our car, it was a right off, now with no car its harder for me to visit my Dad as he is in a care home further away, it will take me ages by public transport, we cant afford to get another car. We have no proof this guy was involved but even the police said he could have paid some one else to do it, so even they suspect him as they have always had a lot of trouble to do with him. Plus the guy is very clever as he always gets out of situations pleading sympathy because of his health condition.
Because this man has certain issues he seems to get away with everything, the council and police do nothing and we are stuck with it all.
I try so hard to remain positive as I am a song writer and have been trying ages to get some where with my music by aiming and contacting high up people in entertainment and hoping that I will get a lucky break.
But its really hard at times and I do feel down as nothing is going right.
I have a sick Dad and a nasty neighbour that causes trouble to deal with. The police give us those victim cards, but I could use them as new wall paper couldnt I, what good are they.
I had to get this off my chest, thanks for reading.
I dont come on here much as had a lot to deal with, but just wanted to air my frustrations and I see this site has changed a bit, so hope my thread is in the correct section.
For those of you whom I spoke to before you would know about my Father who lives quite far away now in a care home with dementia, the later stages he is at now, Yes he has gotten worse now, cant walk and hardly speaks and when I speak to him he looks at me blankly and does not really understand, so I have that emotional aspect to deal with, plus being only child and my Mother died when I was a child myself so things have been pretty tough really. Oh and he does not know who I am any more either now. Just some strange woman that visits him.
But despite all and came out of my depression a bit I try to remain positive, even though when you feel all is going against you.
Now we have been having awful time with a troublesome neighbour living down below, we are in a small block, so you can imagine, he is nosy, horrible and a trouble maker who attracts all kinds to our block. The police and council do nothing much, since we fell out with this person. We had rows with him over a couple of years. It will go quiet for a while and then he will start it all up again.
Other week he was shouting up abuse at our window in front of neighbours. The police warned him, Then the other day we find white paint chucked all over our car, it was a right off, now with no car its harder for me to visit my Dad as he is in a care home further away, it will take me ages by public transport, we cant afford to get another car. We have no proof this guy was involved but even the police said he could have paid some one else to do it, so even they suspect him as they have always had a lot of trouble to do with him. Plus the guy is very clever as he always gets out of situations pleading sympathy because of his health condition.
Because this man has certain issues he seems to get away with everything, the council and police do nothing and we are stuck with it all.
I try so hard to remain positive as I am a song writer and have been trying ages to get some where with my music by aiming and contacting high up people in entertainment and hoping that I will get a lucky break.
But its really hard at times and I do feel down as nothing is going right.
I have a sick Dad and a nasty neighbour that causes trouble to deal with. The police give us those victim cards, but I could use them as new wall paper couldnt I, what good are they.
I had to get this off my chest, thanks for reading.