This is my first post and would like to express my anger at the indifference most carers and dementia patients are being treated or more to the point not treated by the NHS.
I am currently caring for my wife who is entering the later stages of Alzneimers. This is the third Alzheimers sufferer I have cared for end on end since 2007. First it was my mum who came and lived with us, then my sister-in-law who was Down's and before her death I could see things changing in Margaret's, my wife's behaviour which terrified me.
sadly my suspicions became a reality 6 years ago when she was diagnosed as having Alzhiemers and it has progressed as expected.
My reason for making this post is to say that over this period the amount of constructive care or help I have received is pitiful and I assume that this must be the same for other patients and carers.
The impression I get from the GP surgery is that as they cannot really treat dementia patients why bother to put them any where on the list for medical care. When my wife was discharged by the GP Dementia Consultant from his care we were not seen by him but by his clinical pharmacist who was more intent on telling me about the medication Margaret was going on and that after she had shown no adverse reaction to the medication she would be discharged to "care" of our GP practice.
The performance of my GP practice can only be described as pitiful and it is a battle to speak to anyone who I believe cares, I have not spoke to our GP about Margert's condition for4 years and this is not due to a lack of me trying and often information passed to the reception team is triaged out and I get no response at all.
I had hoped that since my first encounter when we cared for my mum interest of local medical services dementia sufferers and carers would have improved but sadly they are only a little better.
Sorry to anyone who reads this rant, but if you are a carer there is nothing worse than watching a loved one leave the stage as unknown to you I feel that you are slowly leaving it as well but don't realize this.
Love to all dementia patients and carers
Rufus£
I am currently caring for my wife who is entering the later stages of Alzneimers. This is the third Alzheimers sufferer I have cared for end on end since 2007. First it was my mum who came and lived with us, then my sister-in-law who was Down's and before her death I could see things changing in Margaret's, my wife's behaviour which terrified me.
sadly my suspicions became a reality 6 years ago when she was diagnosed as having Alzhiemers and it has progressed as expected.
My reason for making this post is to say that over this period the amount of constructive care or help I have received is pitiful and I assume that this must be the same for other patients and carers.
The impression I get from the GP surgery is that as they cannot really treat dementia patients why bother to put them any where on the list for medical care. When my wife was discharged by the GP Dementia Consultant from his care we were not seen by him but by his clinical pharmacist who was more intent on telling me about the medication Margaret was going on and that after she had shown no adverse reaction to the medication she would be discharged to "care" of our GP practice.
The performance of my GP practice can only be described as pitiful and it is a battle to speak to anyone who I believe cares, I have not spoke to our GP about Margert's condition for4 years and this is not due to a lack of me trying and often information passed to the reception team is triaged out and I get no response at all.
I had hoped that since my first encounter when we cared for my mum interest of local medical services dementia sufferers and carers would have improved but sadly they are only a little better.
Sorry to anyone who reads this rant, but if you are a carer there is nothing worse than watching a loved one leave the stage as unknown to you I feel that you are slowly leaving it as well but don't realize this.
Love to all dementia patients and carers
Rufus£