I was quite surprised how many ladies at mums club were young , it’s not how it used to be with lots of really old people sadly . The Alzheimer’s online things are honestly good , we don’t do the online singing but did go to the group, the online quiz is pretty good and the coffee morning is really very relaxed and a lot of laughs . Worth a try . Everyone who knew mum said I would never get her to try any of those things , but I have learnt it’s how you dress it up and also your demeanour , I am ridiculously happy , jovial etc and she feeds off this , we try anything once , she would not entertain the idea before with my dad as he was quite negative about it . Anything is worth a try . Mum occasionally gets upset if she has a false memory of something , or when she is tired, she has lots of naps now and that helps . I can’t advocate anything but from personal experience Memantine has been very good , have no experience of donepezil .