I'm feeling really upset, sad and angry today.
I have two other siblings, both invisibles, and have joint POA with one of them for my mum. Both of them never want to know how mum is doing.
Today, after many months of waiting, mum's flat has just sold and the money has been shared out between her (half of the proceeds) and the other half split between us three children (which had been held in trust after our dad died).
My mum moved in with me at the end of January this year, into an extension we had built for her. I get carers allowance for her, and mum gets attendance allowance. Mum pays a nominal rent to me.
My invisibles want to split my mum's share of the flat proceeds between us three children. I want nothing to do with this and have told my POA sibling so. It is my mum's money and we should be looking at the best way to invest it.
I promised my mum that I would never put her into a care home, but I think that my invisibles want to try and hide money ftom Social Services. I've told them that SS would check mum's finances any way if she went into care.
I'm extremely worried about this, but am loathe to get solicitors involved as I know it could/will probably turn nasty.
I'm so tired, after getting the building work done, spending 4 months emptying mum's flat, arranging solicitors etc etc, and caring for mum.
I just don't know which way to turn.
I have two other siblings, both invisibles, and have joint POA with one of them for my mum. Both of them never want to know how mum is doing.
Today, after many months of waiting, mum's flat has just sold and the money has been shared out between her (half of the proceeds) and the other half split between us three children (which had been held in trust after our dad died).
My mum moved in with me at the end of January this year, into an extension we had built for her. I get carers allowance for her, and mum gets attendance allowance. Mum pays a nominal rent to me.
My invisibles want to split my mum's share of the flat proceeds between us three children. I want nothing to do with this and have told my POA sibling so. It is my mum's money and we should be looking at the best way to invest it.
I promised my mum that I would never put her into a care home, but I think that my invisibles want to try and hide money ftom Social Services. I've told them that SS would check mum's finances any way if she went into care.
I'm extremely worried about this, but am loathe to get solicitors involved as I know it could/will probably turn nasty.
I'm so tired, after getting the building work done, spending 4 months emptying mum's flat, arranging solicitors etc etc, and caring for mum.
I just don't know which way to turn.