hi
my mom was diagnosed with v dementia last year, two weeks ago she had a major stroke she is ok now ,
but previous to this and now we have fallen out , because my mom switches behaviour and starts arguments , then she blames everything on me , she talks to me so evil , like ,
your a killer you are, im ill because of you ,, your not my daughet , she tells me to f off calls me a b word , yet she knows she is doing it , she might has slight vasclualr dementia but she know she is doing this to me , and everything she is throwing in my face hurts me and makes me depressed that I cant cope with it , but because she has thrown everything in my face , I am starting to feel guilty when she dies , will it be my fault ,
I cant go and see my mom like this , and I don't want to , my husbands dad has a month to live dying with cancer , and she talks to my husband like it , I have done everything in my power for my mother and I cant do it no more
can anyone help please
my mom was diagnosed with v dementia last year, two weeks ago she had a major stroke she is ok now ,
but previous to this and now we have fallen out , because my mom switches behaviour and starts arguments , then she blames everything on me , she talks to me so evil , like ,
your a killer you are, im ill because of you ,, your not my daughet , she tells me to f off calls me a b word , yet she knows she is doing it , she might has slight vasclualr dementia but she know she is doing this to me , and everything she is throwing in my face hurts me and makes me depressed that I cant cope with it , but because she has thrown everything in my face , I am starting to feel guilty when she dies , will it be my fault ,
I cant go and see my mom like this , and I don't want to , my husbands dad has a month to live dying with cancer , and she talks to my husband like it , I have done everything in my power for my mother and I cant do it no more
can anyone help please