My darling mum is free

Discussion in 'I care for a person with dementia' started by Sweet, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. Sweet

    Sweet Registered User

    Jun 16, 2014
    72
    My lovely mum passed away today. She was the most wonderful mother and I love her so much. Three and a half years of being on this dementia path with her has ended and she is free and at peace.

    It has been such an emotional journey seeing her change from an independent happy go lucky lady. I've been so lucky that she always remained the gentlest person with the sweetest nature, dementia didn't alter that.

    At 92 she'shad a lovely life and family and I'm glad she's free of illness now.

    I can't thank everone enough on TP for posting all your experiences. It has been an amazing help for me for all the challenges dementia posed when I felt frightened and overwhelmed by it.

    Thank you and best wishes to all of you
    Sweet xxx
     
  2. CJinUSA

    CJinUSA Registered User

    Jan 20, 2014
    1,125
    eastern USA
    Such a loving, difficult message. Sweet. Your mother raised a lovely daughter. Peace to you and yours, and sending thoughts of peace to your mother.
     
  3. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,912
    Female
    Dundee
    I'm sorry to read your news but glad your mum is at peace. Sending my condolences.
     
  4. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,962
    Brixham Devon
    I'm so sorry to read your sad news Sweet. Remember her as the lovely Mother she was-she will be in your heart forever

    Take care of yourself

    Love

    Lyn T XX
     
  5. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,475
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Sending my sympathy to you and all your family. Wishing you peace and strength.
     
  6. brambles

    brambles Registered User

    Sep 22, 2014
    231
    Female
    NW England
    So very sorry Sweet.

    brambles x
     
  7. 2jays

    2jays Registered User

    Jun 4, 2010
    11,598
    West Midlands
    Thinking of you xx


    Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
     
  8. sleepless

    sleepless Registered User

    Feb 19, 2010
    3,223
    Female
    The Sweet North
    I am so sorry for your loss, but glad you are helped by knowing she is at peace, and that she remained her sweet self to the end.
     
  9. jaymor

    jaymor Volunteer Moderator

    Jul 14, 2006
    12,549
    Female
    England
    Sending you and your family my sympathy.
     
  10. cold feet

    cold feet Registered User

    Nov 19, 2010
    22
    Essex
    Sweet, my thoughts will be with you and your family as you come to terms with the loss of your lovely Mum. So pleased she is now at peace, and will suffer no more

    Your post has really touched me. Your Mum could be my Mum. She is also 92, and although she is approaching the end of her life, she is still the sweetest, kindest person you could wish for. When I visit this afternoon I will give her a hug as I think of you and your Mum.

    Thank you for posting.
     
  11. cragmaid

    cragmaid Registered User

    Oct 18, 2010
    7,942
    North East England
    Sweet, a fine passing. Your mother has left the world a better place for having been in it. With Sympathy.x.x
     
  12. angecmc

    angecmc Registered User

    Dec 25, 2012
    2,108
    hertfordshire
    Sorry for your loss xx

    Ange
     
  13. lin1

    lin1 Registered User

    Jan 14, 2010
    9,320
    Female
    East Kent
    So sorry Sweet.
    Sending you my condolences.
     
  14. Peegee

    Peegee Registered User

    Jan 22, 2015
    17
    So sorry to hear your sad news. My mum is 94 just come to live with us and she has always been such a sweet natured, agreeable lady. I've only heard stories of how dementia turns people into aggressive and disagreeable individuals. This was my dread, but so nice to hear that this isn't always the case. Thank you for the hope your message has given me. Peegee
     
  15. Soobee

    Soobee Registered User

    Aug 22, 2009
    2,734
    South
    sending my condolences to you x
     
  16. dottyd

    dottyd Registered User

    Jan 22, 2011
    1,064
    n.e.
    92 ! What a grand age.

    Sorry for your loss but I'm glad she had a good life.
     
  17. pumpkin91

    pumpkin91 Registered User

    Jan 17, 2015
    5
    So sorry for your loss but equally glad that your Mum is now at peace. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you
     
  18. bluejag69

    bluejag69 Registered User

    Oct 3, 2014
    67
    What a lovely post. I'm sorry for your loss, you obviously loved her so much, she was lucky to have you.
    Take care xxx
     
  19. Ash148

    Ash148 Registered User

    Jan 1, 2014
    274
    Dublin, Ireland
    I'm both sorry for your loss and glad for your mum's release.
     
  20. VickyG

    VickyG Registered User

    Feb 6, 2013
    327
    Birmingham
    I'm so sorry for your loss sweet. Sending my condolences x
     

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