At least then the knowledge may give strength to continue with the thought that one day life will return to me and my family.
I have wonder that also , 7 years on now
When I was out with one of my daughter on Monday , I ask her what wrong; she tells me I do not want to know. So I press her on it she tell me “she fed up of listening to my problems “ I did take offence in her saying that , while she tell me “ see I told you , you do not want to know “ . Life if not black white I tell her. My problem as she puts it , in what she keep listening to is about is my mother .
They are just as fed up as I am , wondering when, where its all going to end .
Thank you both Diane, Sue . Sue I shall try not to , rush any decisions . I just email the social worker, as I could not get hold of her today .
Because mum says "no" and has "human rights" they have not come in but neither have they tried.
I said to my mother " don't scream so much " my mother tell me " I am a human I have a right "
Its really all about " In they best interest "
My psychologist phone me today , tell me I miss the appointment, but its OK he feel that I am OK now so don't need another appointment ( it was my last appointment).
I had a good talk to him on the phone , he know and I know where my stresses are coming from, mum symptoms, thank - god I recognise that , because I can get a rage of anger don’t know how to channel it , have not felt that anger in a long time so just Cry a little. Not so much as before , feel a bit better .
He tell me about " best interest " Mental health act , its all in there " best interest " . So I email Social worker , that its in my mother " best interest not to live with me " So Social worker can intemperate that in any way she feel like .
I have tried day centre, respite all they do is unstable mum symptoms make them worse, and my mother is at a stage she needs stability of one environment all the time. So I email that also to social worker.
I personally believe my mother at a stage that she does not know what is her own best interest. Some day I just can't believe what happing to my mother brain, that such a thing disease existed , till I experience it, seem for me that the way life flow.