Hi Mogan. This is a difficult time for you. Emotions are raised and you are possibly feeling a lot of guilt and anxiety. I know I was when I had to move my wife to permanent care. What will make this move less difficult for you, because in these circumstances what is good for you is what is ultimately in your dad's best interest. If you are stressed and exhausted how will this impact you, how will this make the move easier? Although I would always try to be honest in everything I do, I do not see a white lie coming from a place of love and care as being and with the intent of doing good as dishonest. This is a time to look after yourself, you need to be clear-headed to make the best decisions for your father.