We moved house at the weekend, we had had the new house for a few weeks before moving in so alot of our stuff had already moved here and we had decorating etc done.
But on Saturday we actually moved in and I am on the verge of moving out (on my own).
My husband is 6 months after diagnosis and in early stages but going down hill recently. He doesnt think there is anything wrong with him which makes things worse for me really.
Obviously everything is in a new place and I am having to remember where everything is. I have post it notes on the kitchen cupboards which help him very slightly.
Because we are in a new house he now doesnt know basic things that he did easily in the old house - like we don't take milk in our tea, or we have cereal for breakfast and not toast, like the dog needs taking out for a walk or rubbish needs to go in a bin - the list goes on.
I just feel so overwhelmed by everything that I am having to do on my own I literally screamed the place down earlier on (my throat hurts as a result). Trying to figure out how to work the new appliances, trying to deal with workmen, dealing with paperwork, with putting things away, with finding things, with cleaning up after the workmen (who are outside and therefore everytime we go out we are tramping dirt into the house, well I aren't because I take my shoes off in the doorway but husband doesnt remember to do that). Well with Everything really. I know that I am completely not the only one in this boat but right now I feel I am at breaking point and don't know how much more I can take
But on Saturday we actually moved in and I am on the verge of moving out (on my own).
My husband is 6 months after diagnosis and in early stages but going down hill recently. He doesnt think there is anything wrong with him which makes things worse for me really.
Obviously everything is in a new place and I am having to remember where everything is. I have post it notes on the kitchen cupboards which help him very slightly.
Because we are in a new house he now doesnt know basic things that he did easily in the old house - like we don't take milk in our tea, or we have cereal for breakfast and not toast, like the dog needs taking out for a walk or rubbish needs to go in a bin - the list goes on.
I just feel so overwhelmed by everything that I am having to do on my own I literally screamed the place down earlier on (my throat hurts as a result). Trying to figure out how to work the new appliances, trying to deal with workmen, dealing with paperwork, with putting things away, with finding things, with cleaning up after the workmen (who are outside and therefore everytime we go out we are tramping dirt into the house, well I aren't because I take my shoes off in the doorway but husband doesnt remember to do that). Well with Everything really. I know that I am completely not the only one in this boat but right now I feel I am at breaking point and don't know how much more I can take