My mother-in-law was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s at the end 2021 whilst renting a flat independently from a local charity. As her condition worsened through 2022, it became clear it wasn’t safe for her to continue living independently despite her local adult social services arranging 4 carer visits per day. This was confirmed after she spent about a month in hospital over last Christmas and again in March this year. The occupational health team in the second hospital made it clear to social services that it wasn’t safe for her to return home and that she needed a permanent care home. The charity my mother-in-law rented from also had its own highly rated care home catering for dementia sufferers but in a neighbouring local authority area. We organised a place there which she moved into at the beginning of April, which her local social services reluctantly agreed to (because of costs) , but on a temporary basis whilst they assessed her. Social Services have told us how much they will provide to fund her care, without explaining how they arrived at the figure. However, we believe that my mother-in-law‘s pension will be sufficient to meet the shortfall between the monthly care charges and the local authority contribution. In the 2 months she has been in the home she has settled well and developed a close relationship with the staff. The local authority has yet to carry out a financial assessment of my mother-in-law, but despite this is asking my wife and I to guarantee In writing any shortfall, otherwise they will not confirm the placement is permanent and they will move her to another, cheaper, care home. We are perplexed and worried.
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@Sirhowy
For what its worth my views/thoughts are as follows.
Each local authority make their own decision as to how much they will/can pay for a residential care home place and for a nursing home care place. The figure they choose may or may not be at the level the care home / nursing home wants and in fact is usually well below.
So, for example, if the LA says they'll pay at the rate of £575 per week, they then see if they can get the home in question to accept this. If the home accepts this, then all is OK. (The home just charge any shortfall to those that are self funded residents. Thus if the home really want £775 per week, then they divide the £200 "shortfall" between those residents that are self funded, which means the self funders might be charged £825 per week and not £775 per week)
If however the home in question won't accept the £575 per week the LA offer, then the home tries to get the extra from the resident's family. The family are under no obligation to pay, unless they actually agree. If the family don't agree or can't agree, because they don't have the money, and the patient doesn't have the money and the LA won't pay what the home want, then sooner than later the home will say to the LA, sorry we can't keep this resident here and they give notice to the LA to move the patient. The LA then, if they can't get family to pay extra, have to find a care home / nursing home that is prepared to accept what the LA will pay. This usually means a home provided a lesser standard of amenities (it can't or shouldn't be a lesser standard of care/nursing.).
The LA are more likely to find a home that will accept what the LA will/can pay in their own area because the homes in that area know what the LA will/can pay; and in your case, you're dealing with a home out of area and the LA for the area in which the home is geographically situated may have set a different level of payment they can make.
Sorry for length of reply. I hope it makes sense to you.
So you need to find out (i) what LA will pay or are paying, (ii) what home would like to charge (to see the difference)(you'll need to speak to home), (iii) what LA in area of home would pay (the care home may be able to tell you) (iv) what the homes are like that are in the original LA area that would accept the LA payment.
Don't agree to anything or any payment that you don't want to pay, whatever pressure / "blackmail" they try to put you under. It's a horrible position to be put in.
Best wishes, and good luck.