Today has been a day for facing up to the change in Alan since the virus. Alan hardly understands anything I say now and so I find myself repeating things over and over. For example:-
me: would you feed the birds
Alan: He gets the watering can and starts talking about something
which I can't understand
me: The garden doesn't need watering, can you feed the birds
Alan: o.k. - then he starts to pick up something else.
me: Alan look at me - can you feed the birds and I am pointing
to the bird tables.
He doesn't understand. I then get the bird food and give it to him. I feel so full of resentment at those moments and keep chuntering under my breath "I might as well do it myself in the first place".
I go to the kitchen waste bin and throw something in only to find that Alan has put the bin liner on the outside of the bin and he's done it so neatly that it must have taken him ages. I didn't notice myself at first because it's an inner bin and I couldn't tell from the outside.
I am so sad, worried, depressed, weepy and frightened because in just a few weeks it feels like I've lost a massive part of the man I've shared with you all. If I was to have joined TP for the first time tonight I would have presented very differently.
I never believed for one minute that things could change that fast. All weekend we've been nowhere. Granted we've watched the Olympics but I feel absolutely awful.
me: would you feed the birds
Alan: He gets the watering can and starts talking about something
which I can't understand
me: The garden doesn't need watering, can you feed the birds
Alan: o.k. - then he starts to pick up something else.
me: Alan look at me - can you feed the birds and I am pointing
to the bird tables.
He doesn't understand. I then get the bird food and give it to him. I feel so full of resentment at those moments and keep chuntering under my breath "I might as well do it myself in the first place".
I go to the kitchen waste bin and throw something in only to find that Alan has put the bin liner on the outside of the bin and he's done it so neatly that it must have taken him ages. I didn't notice myself at first because it's an inner bin and I couldn't tell from the outside.
I am so sad, worried, depressed, weepy and frightened because in just a few weeks it feels like I've lost a massive part of the man I've shared with you all. If I was to have joined TP for the first time tonight I would have presented very differently.
I never believed for one minute that things could change that fast. All weekend we've been nowhere. Granted we've watched the Olympics but I feel absolutely awful.