I am going to make some presumptions, so forgive me when they are wrong.?
Is he in a bungalow and do you wish to keep him at home as long as possible?
So if so to the above then I would be putting in quite a bit of money.
Care home fees are £1200 so mentally I save that money every week?
I would pay for the bedroom to be refigured.
I would have a hospital bed in place, with all the tipping moving features .
With the correct training you can move a 20 stone man up the bed on your own, with no threat to your back with one of those beds.
I would have a Sara steady.
When mum had carers I left the piles of clean clothing out along her dresser. I had a big hamper with a laminate saying dirty laundry.
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