My dad has been suffering with potential dementia symptoms for over 6 years. These were originally put down to other things, especially due to his age (he is still only 61 now).
We still don’t have a diagnosis, and going through GP’s and that route just wasn’t getting us anywhere so I took him to A&E and he is now on a dementia ward for assessment under section 2. It’s horrible as something needed to happen, he wasn’t doing well at home (although sometimes he was ok) but often he thought there were other people in the house, my mum was an imposter and not the real wife, and he was constantly at work but not being paid for it. But now I see him on this ward, and he is not on their level and does not want to be there. He wants to talk, but none of them on their can talk, staff do thier bit although some better than others, and seemingly the weekend staff are nowhere near as good which has made it difficult as he isn’t being as engaged, which is leading to him getting annoyed and wanting out of there.
Sometimes I think he doesn’t get what is going on, and others I think he does.
I just feel very helpless.
Everyone is so sad with this, he was
Originally sent to a functional older adults ward as he had no diagnosis, but after one night they decided he wasn’t suitable there so moved to organic, but he doesn’t really feel suitable on there either. I don’t feel he belongs anywhere at the min and it’s so hard.
I want him out, but also know we need answers and help. Are we ever even likely to have him out again? and if so how long does this really take, do they usually use the full 28 days?
We still don’t have a diagnosis, and going through GP’s and that route just wasn’t getting us anywhere so I took him to A&E and he is now on a dementia ward for assessment under section 2. It’s horrible as something needed to happen, he wasn’t doing well at home (although sometimes he was ok) but often he thought there were other people in the house, my mum was an imposter and not the real wife, and he was constantly at work but not being paid for it. But now I see him on this ward, and he is not on their level and does not want to be there. He wants to talk, but none of them on their can talk, staff do thier bit although some better than others, and seemingly the weekend staff are nowhere near as good which has made it difficult as he isn’t being as engaged, which is leading to him getting annoyed and wanting out of there.
Sometimes I think he doesn’t get what is going on, and others I think he does.
I just feel very helpless.
Everyone is so sad with this, he was
Originally sent to a functional older adults ward as he had no diagnosis, but after one night they decided he wasn’t suitable there so moved to organic, but he doesn’t really feel suitable on there either. I don’t feel he belongs anywhere at the min and it’s so hard.
I want him out, but also know we need answers and help. Are we ever even likely to have him out again? and if so how long does this really take, do they usually use the full 28 days?