Dads been in a specialist secure Dementia care home for 4 years and family member was supporting him (lets call them TP) Dad died and I am one of the Executors. It transpires that in the last 6months an LPA for finances was registered with the Office of the Public Guardians (OPG) . However we can't understand how this is possible as Dad has had Alzheimers for 4-5 years, and when he went into the care home a Deprivation of Liberty assessment (DoLs) was put in place. The certificate provider was someone my Dad hadn't seen for years and even then only a fleeting connection and they attended the care home with TP and signed to say Dad had his mental capacity! Surely this should have been a court of protection order and they didn't tell anyone else in the family so we had no idea this had happened.
As Executors, we now have access to Dads bank statements and its become clear that TP has had Dads bank card for at least three years and has been systematically draining cash from the account and when he got the LPA this stepped up and he hasn't paid some bills. There are purchases on Dads bank account for holidays, petrol, young trendy clothing (he was 92), Ikea, and onlline grocery shopping so presumably it would be easy to trace who actually got the stuff if they had the right powers. Tried reporting to the OPG and they say that their power stopped when Dad died. Tried claiming fraud with the bank and they say they were not advised Dad was a vulnerable person nor was the LPA registered with them and its basically our word against TPs that Dad hadn't given him permission to spend his money but Dad didn't have the mental capacity. They say we should have reported this sooner but we had no reason to suspect or have access to the documents.
We know TP knew Dad had been diagnosed with Dementia as he told the local authority that Dad had dementia to get a concession on Council Tax nearly 4 years ago and they confirmed it with the GP. We have reported it to the police as the bank is £50-£100,000 adrift and they have taken a statement and they are investigating but I have been advised by a knowledgeable friend that this is possibly going to be classed as a civil not police matter. Surely this can't be right?
Where do we go from here, any advice?
As Executors, we now have access to Dads bank statements and its become clear that TP has had Dads bank card for at least three years and has been systematically draining cash from the account and when he got the LPA this stepped up and he hasn't paid some bills. There are purchases on Dads bank account for holidays, petrol, young trendy clothing (he was 92), Ikea, and onlline grocery shopping so presumably it would be easy to trace who actually got the stuff if they had the right powers. Tried reporting to the OPG and they say that their power stopped when Dad died. Tried claiming fraud with the bank and they say they were not advised Dad was a vulnerable person nor was the LPA registered with them and its basically our word against TPs that Dad hadn't given him permission to spend his money but Dad didn't have the mental capacity. They say we should have reported this sooner but we had no reason to suspect or have access to the documents.
We know TP knew Dad had been diagnosed with Dementia as he told the local authority that Dad had dementia to get a concession on Council Tax nearly 4 years ago and they confirmed it with the GP. We have reported it to the police as the bank is £50-£100,000 adrift and they have taken a statement and they are investigating but I have been advised by a knowledgeable friend that this is possibly going to be classed as a civil not police matter. Surely this can't be right?
Where do we go from here, any advice?