I've read the advice on the website and spoken to a local hospice but I find others stories informative. My Mum has late stage vascular dementia, she sleeps, a lot! She's exhausted, when she is awake she looks like just existing is tiring. I really struggle to get her to go anywhere, just a few months ago she enjoyed a drive out or lunch somewhere, now she just can't be bothered/hasn't the energy. She doesn't even want to go to church which has been a big part of her life. Her appetite has decreased, she's always been partial to cake/biscuits etc (in moderation) but this is no longer the case. She has many of the general symptoms of late stage dementia also, but...is this the end?
On a personal note, I'm conflicted, my Dad died earlier this year and I'm not relishing the thought of being parentless at 34 years old but...I also just want her to slip away now, she has no quality of life, I don't want her to get worse, she's was always an active, intelligent person with a quick whit and now she just sits, sleeps and barely speaks.
On a personal note, I'm conflicted, my Dad died earlier this year and I'm not relishing the thought of being parentless at 34 years old but...I also just want her to slip away now, she has no quality of life, I don't want her to get worse, she's was always an active, intelligent person with a quick whit and now she just sits, sleeps and barely speaks.