I just have to have a major RANT about me! Hopefully I will make you laugh as well
So, in my quest to go on some dates, in between becoming a full time carer through no choice, I decided to try internet dating.
One guy seemed to like my profile, said it was his last day on this site and that he would like to hear from me.
Feeling a bit down I though oh why not contact him. Even though I'm not in the best frame of mind right now, as some of you may know. My stories about my mum, and today about my dad hitting my mum etc.
This guy offered some support, he said he had been through the same thing. I asked why on earth he would listen to the baggage of someone he hardly knows. He claimed he went through the same thing. I thought how kind of him, very sweet. Maybe I will call him.
Since Friday, things at home have not been great. I told him about mum screaming and bashing things, so talking on phone was not convenient at the moment. To be honest I really didn't feel like sitting the the car talking to someone I hardly knew about my problems.
The weekend has been miserable, hence my multitude of posts on this site. I had no email contact with him since Thursday. I actually thought over the weekend I may doll myself up and meet for coffee.
But my dad treating my mum with verbal abuse and learning of his physical abuse has left me drained.
This guy emails me today the following:
your missing news gave me your answer
I fell for your sad story, which is not that bad.....
take care of mom and have a wonderful start in the New Year.
What a totally unkind person. And who is he to judge whether my situation is bad or not? Seriously, don't pretend to understand my issues and then try to use some crazy psychology to make me look as if I spun him a story. My gut instinct must have been right. Something was stopping me from calling or meeting him.
OK peeps I hope I brought a smile to you faces with my shenanigans. LOL LOL
So, in my quest to go on some dates, in between becoming a full time carer through no choice, I decided to try internet dating.
One guy seemed to like my profile, said it was his last day on this site and that he would like to hear from me.
Feeling a bit down I though oh why not contact him. Even though I'm not in the best frame of mind right now, as some of you may know. My stories about my mum, and today about my dad hitting my mum etc.
This guy offered some support, he said he had been through the same thing. I asked why on earth he would listen to the baggage of someone he hardly knows. He claimed he went through the same thing. I thought how kind of him, very sweet. Maybe I will call him.
Since Friday, things at home have not been great. I told him about mum screaming and bashing things, so talking on phone was not convenient at the moment. To be honest I really didn't feel like sitting the the car talking to someone I hardly knew about my problems.
The weekend has been miserable, hence my multitude of posts on this site. I had no email contact with him since Thursday. I actually thought over the weekend I may doll myself up and meet for coffee.
But my dad treating my mum with verbal abuse and learning of his physical abuse has left me drained.
This guy emails me today the following:
your missing news gave me your answer
I fell for your sad story, which is not that bad.....
take care of mom and have a wonderful start in the New Year.
What a totally unkind person. And who is he to judge whether my situation is bad or not? Seriously, don't pretend to understand my issues and then try to use some crazy psychology to make me look as if I spun him a story. My gut instinct must have been right. Something was stopping me from calling or meeting him.
OK peeps I hope I brought a smile to you faces with my shenanigans. LOL LOL