For those who don't know me. My fiance and I live with his family friends (I just call them grandparents.) We have a 1 year old. I feel like he doesn't want to take care of grandma but he won't take her to a home. -She's 80 pounds now. -Her mouth smells rotten because her dentures are never clean. -she doesn't know anyone's name -She's starting to hallucinate -she can't go to the bathroom. She has depends and gets feces everywhere in the house -my grandpa is president of the township and doesn't take care of her. He leaves her with me so I can watch her and my 1 year old. -she had an accident in her depends and he washed her off in the bathtub. There is feces all over the tub and on our stuff. -she hasn't been to the doctor in years. He's just letting it run its course. But the worst part is, he ignores it. Basically I feel like she really needs help but I don't think he'd ever take her to a home. I'm just at a loss. I'm really blank but something needs to be done.