I feel so guilty looking after my Mum. She does not think that there is anything wrong with her. She lives alone with her cat and dog. Walks the dog in the park every day. My brother and I go every day separately and take her out to eat as she does not eat at home and has been malnourished twice I last 3 years. She manages on her own really well. She picks up dog poo with her bare hands and when she had toilet problems herself gets it all over her hands and toilet and handle etc but does not clean up after herself as tho she doesn't notice. She will wash her hands properly, but may smell as hse would have toucherd her clothes. She looks really pretty and young as she is a 76 year old hippy. Last week I found out that a 30yrs old man from the park had seduced her and is sleeping with her round the house. I called the police who went round, but has she had amazing verbal skills they could do nothing. Because I called the police the Adult Care services want to assess her. (Up to now no one other than family has been involved.) I have been meaning to do this for ages, but because she does not think there is anything wrong I couldn't do it to her. I'm now worried about what happens next, because she is so like a child and happy in her denial. I'm confused, upset and at end of my tether.