Hi CeliaW,
I hope your Mum is okay after the fall, and my heart goes out to you, i understand how you must feel with all these phone calls.
For me, when my Grandad used to ring and ring, and I couldn't answer or seen I had so many missed calls- I'd have a terrible pain in my chest all day wondering why he was ringing, only to find he had misplaced his bacon, and had anyone stolen it? Or his telly was broke, the goverment are tapping in (when it was simply on mute)!!!
I've found he calls so much, and wonder if your Mum is the same, because he gets bored and lonely at home waiting for the carer or visitor to come. And that having too much free time, makes him anxious and he starts panick dialling...
My solution, that has really worked and I hope will help you some, is to have made him some CD's for him to play of his favourite music, and to keep him occupied while he sits and listens, I ask him to write down any nice lyrics, so he can show me when I visit.
I've also set up his telly so he can play some of his favourite old movies, I found sticking coloured stickers over the buttons to turn the telly on and press play really helpful in not getting calls to 'how does it work again?'!
Hopefully the Carers could remind your Mum your working as you said, and too encourage her to do something productive while she waits..
I noticed you mentioned sometimes when she calls you play her some favourite music, so I hope this helps, and word games too? Perhaps make up a few sheets with some word related games on and print off for her to do, or maybe even some sketching or doodling, I know Grandad is always more content when he feels busy and useful, and definately let her GP know of this phoning anxiety, there should definately be something suitable to prescribe to help matters
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