I have always favoured taking mum out of the carehome when I visit. It has seemed to invigorate her and makes for an easier visit and distraction as even after 2 years mum still wants to come home, says she doesn't know anyone there. I think a lot of this is the dementia and she used to say the same when she was at home, doesn't make it easier to cope with though knowing she feels so sad and lost.
Mum is incontinent now and it makes it more difficult to go out. I thought about taking in a nail file and polish, can't take photos as this upsets mum. Any other ideas for what I could do. I tend not to talk about family much as this upsets mum too, I feel quite limited. I tend to hold mum's hand alot too just to let her know I love her.Thank you
Mum is incontinent now and it makes it more difficult to go out. I thought about taking in a nail file and polish, can't take photos as this upsets mum. Any other ideas for what I could do. I tend not to talk about family much as this upsets mum too, I feel quite limited. I tend to hold mum's hand alot too just to let her know I love her.Thank you