Alzheimer's the gift that keeps on giving but in such a cruel way. Mum is end of life (again this is the third time) but this time feels different to the last. She has been in bed for just over a week, is still sipping drinks and maybe nibbling the corner of a piece of toast. But the last 2 days have possibly been the hardest so far. I'm not really sure how to explain it but it's the most aware mum has been since falling in 2020. Her vocabulary is still garbled for a lot of words but we have communicated to a degree, but it's just so desperately sad and upsetting, she keeps saying she doesn't like it, and that she doesn't want to go. But today I said I would be back tomorrow and the joy on her face was so obvious and she said are you sure!
I have been holding her hand, hugging her and telling her I love her, then at one point she told me to be careful!
I am so confused and probably not explaining it very well but honestly this is the most aware she has been in such a long time. I have no idea if she knows what is happening or if I am just reading too much into it. I've witnessed and heard of the highs and lows of Alzheimer's but mentally she seems as high as she has been for ages while physically she is as low as she has ever been.
I'm struggling to know how to behave or if somehow I'm making her feel worse because I'm there then have to go.
Has anyone ever experienced anything like this or can give me any thoughts.
Thank you
I have been holding her hand, hugging her and telling her I love her, then at one point she told me to be careful!
I am so confused and probably not explaining it very well but honestly this is the most aware she has been in such a long time. I have no idea if she knows what is happening or if I am just reading too much into it. I've witnessed and heard of the highs and lows of Alzheimer's but mentally she seems as high as she has been for ages while physically she is as low as she has ever been.
I'm struggling to know how to behave or if somehow I'm making her feel worse because I'm there then have to go.
Has anyone ever experienced anything like this or can give me any thoughts.
Thank you